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Heal Through Consequences

Heal through consequences.

Consequences are those that happen to a person as a result of his or her choices.

think of consequences

One type is “NATURAL CONSEQUENCES.”

They happen to a person, say an addict or a violent freak. Out of his own accord or doing. 

It means without any outside intervention, such as from family and friends. 

A young man in his late 20s was once in the headline of newspapers. He’s an addict. He has refused rehabilitation many times in the past.

One time, he drove an SUV while under the influence of shabu and alcohol. When someone cut him off during traffic, he took his revolver and shot the other driver.

He escaped into his mother’s rest house. A few weeks later, the police caught up with him to arrest him.

Instead of surrendering, the young man traded gunshots with the police. He died with a bullet on his head.

The other type is “LOGICAL CONSEQUENCES.”

It involves outside intervention. These are consequences usually arranged or imposed upon by family and friends. All in an effort to correct or encourage treatment.

I have had a patient who was literally brought to me for treatment and rehabilitation by his whole family clan.

He lost millions in a matter of few months drinking, womanizing, gambling, and hosting lavish parties.

Sooner, he ran out of money. His business went down. And he was already seriously hurting his wife and children at home.

His whole family clan imposed “logical consequences” on him. 

He was required to undergo therapy and rehabilitation with accompanying consequences.

Such as, among others, his wife’s threats of separation and annulment, denial of income dividends from his family clan-owned companies, and distancing of relatives, if he refuses treatment.

Logical consequences work for people to heal. It’s something you can do as family or friend for someone you care about.

Think of consequences. They matter to your overall well being.

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