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Being Selfish Hurts You

Being selfish hurts you. It is dangerous. 

being selfish hurts you

 

Not just psychologically and spiritually but also relationally. It creates bad effects on one’s overall well being.

 

Selfishness or self-centeredness is natural in a child. But in an adult, it is childish and immature.

 

That’s where the hurt is. A hurt that can last a lifetime.

 

My client, Rizza, was excessively bitter and unforgiving of her husband’s accidental infidelity.

 

Despite obvious evidences of her husband’s sincerity and remorse, she “attacks” him verbally and physically.

 

She also had become unduly critical and intolerant of others as she harbored bitterness towards her husband. 


Rizza evolved though after a few sessions. She developed patience and calmness. 

 

And she realized that her past excessive behavior had roots somewhere in her selfishness or self-centeredness.

 

Writer Charles Durham gives a shrewd analysis of some hurt by selfishness.

 

He writes, “The reformers were often power-hungry, the excessive talker needs to be at the center stage, the competitor must be the best, and the angry person must have a vendetta. Boasting is often the expression of excessive pride, or a cover for personal insecurity.”

 

You see, when you’re selfish, your risk or potential for mental health disorders is increased. 

 

Deeper depression or loneliness is one of these. You discourage others too to get close to you.


Being selfish hurts you.

 

To remedy this unhappy fruit of selfishness, you should understand the need for healing and therapy. 

 

That calls for a ruthlessly honest reevaluation of your attitudes, painful though the process may be. 

 

It will be worth the pain … and the wait. To be healthy, alive, and whole.

 

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