Every action is an effort to avoid anxiety. That’s what psychologists would generally postulate. Behind every activity, every choice, every plan is an unconscious effort to avoid anxiety. A client once told me that he hates his job. Yet he still did his work no matter how much he disliked it. His hated job creates… Continue reading Facing Anxiety
In Red Cross, they have physical first aid. The concept and principles governing Red Cross First Aid training is equally valid for an Emotional First Aid program. Both Physical First Aid and Emotional First Aid have things in common. Both teach that damage in accidents or emergencies can be reduced or controlled by using basic… Continue reading What is Emotional First-Aid?
Problems have advantages. Ordinarily, we view problems in a negative way. They blocks your goals. https://www.lifecoachhelps.com/blocked-goals-change-your-brain-change-your-life/ They make you feel unhappy. Yet problems have a positive aspect. They give you certain kinds of good advantages. If you are to look at them more closely, problems provide you with opportunities. Yes, opportunities for your own good. When Sylvester lost his job… Continue reading Problems Have Advantages
“A book is a garden, an orchard, a storehouse, a party, a company by the way, a counselor, a multitude of counselors.” – Charles Baudelaire Do you know that you have secrets that you keep from your self? This book explores why we may consciously or unconsciously sabotage our health, relationships, and… Continue reading DR. SUBIDA’s BOOKS