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Why does a patient resist therapy? The concept of resistance to therapy is described in psychoanalytic theory and psychotherapy. It refers to the patient’s unconscious attempts to avoid or block the exploration of certain thoughts, emotions, or memories that are psychologically threatening. The unconscious plays a central role in resistance to therapy for several reasons:… Continue reading Why Does A Patient Resist Therapy?

MAY APAT AKONG MINAMAHAL:4 loves –Bible. Psychology. Writing. Chess. All channels used by God in HisRedemptive mission for mankind. Where souls hear His Word.Get saved, healed, and taught. I’m especially fortunate for this.Doing it for years and years now. There is rarely a day that goes byThat I am not grateful for meaningful work. My… Continue reading Enter My Four Loves

HEALING IS ACCEPTANCE. First step of healing is acceptance. Accept that not everything is within your grasp. Accept that some humans are only temporary in your life. Accept that some of them do not even belong to you. Accept that healing takes time. And that is fine. Learn to let go. Something better is waiting… Continue reading Healing Is Acceptance

This is a sequel to my FB post, “Pineperahan ka lang ba?”:ANUNG GAGAWIN MO KUNG PINEPERAHAN KA NGA LANG? drangelosubida.comPhoto: Art Photography

PINEPERAHAN KA LANG BA? How do you know and see that a person is only using you for money or benefits? “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, and by craving it, some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.”— 1 Timothy 6:10 “Make… Continue reading When Someone Is Only Using You For Money

Ask me, “What’s a secret of long friendships?” My answer is what writer Jeff Brown calls “imperfection tolerance.” Brown writes that it’s one of the most reliable indicators of a friendship’s longevity. That is, friendships that are the most likely to stay longer are those with an expansive and compassionate tolerance for each other’s imperfections.… Continue reading A Secret Of Long Friendships

Deliver your self from poverty and need. We have always been aware of people who are struggling financially and wondering how they are going to make it. Poverty, as defined by Miriam-Webster, is “the state of one who lacks a usual or socially acceptable amount of money or material possessions.” It means a person has no or little resources to provide for… Continue reading Deliver Your Self from Poverty

♥️ Birthdays and Time Travel: The Travel Is Short.I THANK THE LORD FOR BIRTHDAYS! Today, I’m given another divine extension.For “time travel.” You and I, we are all “time travelers.”Time travel creates life lessons for us. Here are some from my own trip. When someone devalues or rages at me,I choose to relax, the travel… Continue reading Birthdays and Time Travel

PAANO MO MALALAMAN NA SINASAYANG MO ANG IYONG BUHAY? Dr. John Piper, best selling author of “Don’t Waste Your Life,” writes: “I will tell you what a tragedy is. I will show you how to waste your life, Consider this story from the February 1998 Reader’s Digest: A couple ‘took early retirement from their jobs… Continue reading Don’t Waste Your Life

Psychological detachment refers to a state where an individual mentally disengages/detaches/disidentifies from something. Such as a traumatic event, a stressful situation or a particular person.  It is a form of emotional coping strategy that can help individuals distance themselves from distressing memories, thoughts, or feelings tied to past experiences.  This doesn’t mean ignoring or denying… Continue reading Learn About Psychological Detachment