This is a sequel to my FB post, “Pineperahan ka lang ba?”:
ANUNG GAGAWIN MO KUNG PINEPERAHAN KA NGA LANG?
- Set proper limits/boundaries – be prepared to say no.
- Understand your own motivations why you are giving (e.g. to be liked etc).
- Communicate consequences.
- See if you’re enabling a person’s dependency/disorder.
- Take time to know a person before offering financial help.
- Document loans and debts.
- Protect your assets.
- Choose to rebuild trust if relationship is important to you.
- Discern and stand up to manipulation, deceit, and controlling behavior.
- Stay strong and remember why you’re making changes.
- Seek feedback from trusted individuals.
- Practice self care.
- Stay consistent in your actions and responses.
- Distance or detach from the person if necessary, with love.
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